Tuesday, 20 December 2011


This is 100% truth and can be backed up by men around the world;

From a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys. 

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me. 

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.



We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

Smile and

say "thank you."

Kiss us when no

one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to
wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up 
Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. 

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us or any hott guy in this case.

It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. 

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand im not sayin i wouldnt like it ether ; ) 


Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..


*****Give the nice guys a chance*****

Guys repost this if you agree

Girls repost this if you think it's cute

Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this

*Holdin Hands

Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times.
Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.


Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold
Guys : Automatically move closer to her.


Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other

Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it.

*Laying below the stars 

Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.

If you enjoyed reading this please leave me some feedback and share with your friends <3 Josh aka phexid :D

Saturday, 10 December 2011

The Art Of Being Alone. (online friends)

For me it's as natural as taking a breathe of fresh air. Waking up to absolute silence, and a vast emptiness. Hello! Of course there will be no reply, except for the one in my head saying "there's no one there dude". I wonder what the world is doing at this moment, and if anybody notices I am still in bed? Should I get up today and do something, or just lye here. I log online and surf the net looking for some entertainment. Stumbled upon this place where "you" put your videos on the "tube" and share with other people doing the same. Wow this looks like fun, I sign up and make an account. I make a few videos of my bearded dragon and before I know it, I have 100's of new subscribers and online friends. 4 years and over 175 videos later and the emptiness in my life is gone. If ever I find myself down and out, I turn to this website to be entertained and meet new friends.
   Now the "shot-callers" have taken all we have built away from us. They have forced us to conform to their new style and rules. Many of our unique personalized features are being revoked, making it hard to stand out and be noticed among millions of other users. We no longer have the ability to "add as a friend" but, instead "a contact suggestion." So for the last 4 years of my life I built a virtual community of friends, subscribers, and like minded individuals, to have it destroyed overnight by money hungry CEO's. Leaving me and many others feeling angry, discouraged, and confused. Why did you decide to remove one of the most important elements of any community? Friendship!
    I guess I should crawl back into bed and pretend this never happened. NO! I will not stand still and watch my work go down in flames. I thought of ways we could rebel, but many had poor outcomes. I thought about making my own video sharing website, but realized the odds I was facing trying to take on a mega site like this. I have heard rumors of a silent "no log in" protest for the 16th of Dec, where for that 24 hour period nobody will log into the site. I however have done rough calculations and have determined that less then 12% of users will actually stand by a "24hour lockout" making it a moot attempt. So what do we do? Or better yet, is there anything we can do?

Wednesday, 7 December 2011

Welcome To My Blog

Short and sweet and to the point. Here you will find an array of thoughts and opinions, as I dish out textual abuse to the things that get my attention in life. Not always meant to be a rant, some posts may be very sappy, but I promise you this, you will never read for too long, and you will almost always leave with a smile on your face (: